Who am I?
My second relapse of MS clearly affected my cognitive abilities.
This time my memory was severely affected.
This left me unable to do my usual work. All my actuarial knowledge had been deleted from my memory!
This is when I knew that the life I knew had ended!
There was no more room for denial!
I had to stop working.
This was devastating to me for many many years!
I was really faced with what I was identifying myself with?
What we identify ourselves with consists of an endless list.
Who am I?
Am I my name?
Am I the daughter of this woman and this man?
Am I the friend of this person and that person?
Am I the wife of this man?
Am I a mother (ok that one does not apply to me: I don’t have kids)?
Am I my body?
Am I a woman?
Am I a Canadian or a Mauritanian?
Am I my thoughts and beliefs?
Am I the voice in my head?
Am I the emotion I am feeling right now?
Am I an emotion I memorized that is stored in my body?
Am I the story of my life?
Am I a disease or diagnosis?
And above all for me in this instance: am I my job?
Am I my title?
Am I my role?
Am I what I do?
Am I what I have?
Who am I beyond all those identities?
For many years I suffered from the loss of my identification with my job!
For so long I did not know who I was!
Through meditation, through education, through self-enquiry, self-reflection and self-study, I connected with the simple but profound joy of being!
I discovered that I did not need any identification to exist.
Just BEING is enough. I exist. That in itself is the miracle!
I started to feel grateful for the miracle of being alive!
From this, anything can be added.
I discovered a whole new way of life.
I use to want to have, then do, to finally maybe be.
Now I am learning to BE first, then DO, finally HAVE, even GIVE.
Who are you? What do you identify yourself with? 💜